Re: fallin in love so fast??? wat do u think???

Ms Kye · by Ms Kye on Thu Oct 16, 2008 8:07 am

Wow! this is scary. I just celebrated my 1st annivesarry with him last monday. Just hope, my relationship won't be that bad. I learn to tolerate, i feel both of us compatible to each other. Pray for me ya. ^^

fat_bunny · by fat_bunny on Thu Oct 16, 2008 2:56 pm

u n mr. kye use how much time to fall in love with each other leh?? :)

actually u ppl think how "short" of the time falling in love considered fast?? one week? one month??

Ms Kye · by Ms Kye on Thu Oct 16, 2008 3:23 pm

ohoo.. that is a good question. Let me share, he was my senior. He was one of PK/U durin our MAP2007. Because of some coincident i became his buddy (my fac, got buddy system). We start from stranger to somebody. It takes about 3 months before we decided to declare as couple.

Is that consider fall in love so fast? I don't know..

fat_bunny · by fat_bunny on Thu Oct 16, 2008 3:27 pm

3 months considered ok i think...hmm...may be is x the problem of time lah...is u 2 feelings rite or not loh...if rite den "on" lah, no problem d... :D

Ms Kye · by Ms Kye on Thu Oct 16, 2008 3:39 pm

tutuman · by tutuman on Fri Oct 17, 2008 3:01 am

karoshi wrote:i had a fren. he break up wit his gf 5 months ago. now, he's in a relationship??? i say "wat???!!!!". i dunno wat to say.... speechless... wat do u think??? izit for real OR fake OR juz for fun??? gosh!

wat do u think of this case if compare to yours??

a fren ended a relationship. after 3 WEEKS, got new partner!! wat do u think??

wats the period of hibernation that u think is suitable once broke up. 1 yr?? 2 yrs??

>nocturnal< · by >nocturnal< on Fri Oct 17, 2008 3:04 am

minimum 1 yr. max 5 yrs. y u ask tis Q???

tutuman · by tutuman on Fri Oct 17, 2008 3:05 am

annoymous wrote:sometimes after 3 years of relationship might juz break up in a few days.. after 3 years only know that our personality does not match.. but we still remains as frens.. i'm hoping that we will patch up back after he graduates.. am i stupid or too naive to wait for him? or i should just let it go and find other guy that maybe are more suitable for me?

do wat u think is worth to do...when u love a person u may do something that other think it is crazy or stupid..so go on with wat u think is worth k?? gambateh...

tutuman · by tutuman on Fri Oct 17, 2008 3:08 am

budaksukatido wrote:alo..
don noe if this goes here, but i wanna share sumthin.

ive been in and out of relationship, been 7 or 8 so far, lost count though.. the longest is 3 years and the shortest is 2 weeks.. :D

well, my last relationship lasts just for 3 weeks, well, it happens just recently. we broke up because she's SOOO BORING lor... dint know why i end up with her in the firt place...lol...
and now, she's is bothering me, quite A LOT... sms me everyday, asking me to go dinner with her, and she keep on insisting us to be friends..
but, the problem with me is, i cant except her, YET. cos i have this kind of 'post traumatic relationship sindrom' if you wish to say. i kept telling her that i cant except her readilly and treat her like i use to..
and ive told her that i hoping to return to my ex-GF, the 3 years relationship one, we broke up cos she's moving with her family to another state.... :(
and you know what she did? just recently she sent comment on her fs, telling her im baek la, caring la....
AND IM PISSED!!! I TOLD HER 'WHAT THE F**K ARE YOU DOING!!!' AND I CALL HER NAMES AND EVERYTHING, (mind the language). i know its bad, but i told her REPEATLY to gve me some space, and what did she do?
im in the edge now.. im really f*cked up rite now. don know what to do. i so malu lar she did that.. if she a guy then maybe i would sepak terajang her lar... really geram rite now... :x

maybe you guys can offer some advice?

haha...u r quite popular if like that...my advice is juz ignore her....avoid her...this is good for both...wont hurt anyone..hehe...wat do u think??

tutuman · by tutuman on Fri Oct 17, 2008 3:11 am

PerfectStrike wrote:the best way to recover urself is get a new gf :lol:

u wont recover...u will juz get deeper hurt..n at the same time hurting ppl too...only stupid ppl did this...i was the stupid one...

fat_bunny · by fat_bunny on Fri Oct 17, 2008 10:57 am

never ever make ur relationship as a play game or "giv a try" concept...u mz clarify urself do u love her/him? and how bt the the person u love hav d same feeling wif u or not den baru can start...

x suka suka hati start a relationship, may be u jz get touched by him/her at tat moment only...why don't clarify clearly den baru start?start den break up is it fun?

take seriously in relationship...

and for budaksukatido: why want to start wif her? den break up wif her in so short period of time again? gt think carefully wen u want to start wif her?? and nw she make u feel so hate her cz all the things she do. but can u say dat u hav no responsible on all these happened??she is hurt u noe?(based on the reason u give - boring).wat i will say like dis is not bcz i'm oso a girl...

take seriously in relationship...hurting ppl is not d things wat we should do esp in relationship...

fat_bunny · by fat_bunny on Fri Oct 17, 2008 11:00 am

tutuman wrote:
PerfectStrike wrote:the best way to recover urself is get a new gf :lol:

u wont recover...u will juz get deeper hurt..n at the same time hurting ppl too...only stupid ppl did this...i was the stupid one...

listen to ur heart...wat ur heart wanna tell u n u mz listen...cz most of the time we will do the stupid things cz we jz let emotion and mind take us go...but x listen to own heart...

tutuman · by tutuman on Fri Oct 17, 2008 12:45 pm

JanBB wrote:
tutuman wrote:
PerfectStrike wrote:the best way to recover urself is get a new gf :lol:

u wont recover...u will juz get deeper hurt..n at the same time hurting ppl too...only stupid ppl did this...i was the stupid one...

listen to ur heart...wat ur heart wanna tell u n u mz listen...cz most of the time we will do the stupid things cz we jz let emotion and mind take us go...but x listen to own heart...

ok..thnx...i understand...hurting ppl will make ourselves feel bad too...haiz...

tutuman · by tutuman on Fri Oct 17, 2008 12:56 pm

karoshi wrote:minimum 1 yr. max 5 yrs. y u ask tis Q???

haha...juz in case will get shoot if start a new relationship b4 1yr..haha..so i can start a new relationship legally la now...

piggy · by piggy on Sun Oct 19, 2008 8:03 am

really should wait for 1 year before starting a new relationship? why must be minimum 1 year? can it be earlier or later?