How's ur relationship wif people in UNIMAS???

thr is one voted frm me for very good for this topic, im curios who is the another one voted for very good here... can anyone tell me???

KaKa*HiMeMiYa wrote:thr is one voted frm me for very good for this topic, im curios who is the another one voted for very good here... can anyone tell me???

i think it's bumi la

Yeah..Bumi quite famous wor..haha

then, i hav a question here, urs frens most r gals o guys??? cz some of the ppl, let say she is a gal, then her will b more fine wif gals, then her whole gang all r gals... for me, there is equal quantity for gals n guys in my gang...

ya. me too. just the same quantity amount of boys and girls friends... i came from a boy school. when i entered form 6, got girls.when enter unimas more girls. so, suppose that my friends that are girls and boys are the same amount...

i like to be alone better when i am dealing with my works.
beisdes, this time in relationship, is just not my type to make it happen so...

KaKa*HiMeMiYa wrote:then, i hav a question here, urs frens most r gals o guys??? cz some of the ppl, let say she is a gal, then her will b more fine wif gals, then her whole gang all r gals... for me, there is equal quantity for gals n guys in my gang...

I actually befriend to anyone who wants to make friend with me. But most of the time (esp in my primary-secondary-matriculation)i like to befriend with guys, coz they won't bitching on you. If they did, they won't do it till you feel wanna cry. My girl friends are among supporter and none of them use bitch mouth to talk. except for certain time.

In uni, i have few closest friends girls and guys. Some other people don't like me because they just don't know how to accept me as what i am. I did accept them as what they are.. and i don't care at all.... Haha

hi.. ms kye... y did u said other ppl dislike u becoz they just dunno h w to accept u as what u r... r u mean ur behavior or personality or attitude or other thgs???

i am a straight forward person,serious in doing project or assignment, also justice matter the most. But now try not too straight forward (which sound a bit fake lu), just to adjust the things.

Straight forward not in bitchy way la, for example in asking question while presentation; if i see the person presenting seriously bluff and no preparation, i will ask; why you didnt prepare for this presentation but still tin kosong at there? (stuff like that)

Last time i told one of the exco in my big project not to blame other people for not joining them to do work. Because, she never invite in a proper way (as team) to do work together. Do things alone and blame others. Not professional at all.
After the incident, i finally realized that this type of person has a small-minded. I didnt mean to hurt, it was my job as vice president to suggest what they should do and to maintain a good relations among all members. But still racist and no unity.
At last, a group of people start hating me but still groups of people thanking me.

But no harm, i've seen hundred of people like that before.
Just sun understand, WHY CAN'T UNITE in TEAM?????
Bawa kepala sendiri, mau ingat kepala orang lain juga ba.

So, its like that.

Ms Kye wrote:i am a straight forward person,serious in doing project or assignment, also justice matter the most. But now try not too straight forward (which sound a bit fake lu), just to adjust the things.

Straight forward not in bitchy way la, for example in asking question while presentation; if i see the person presenting seriously bluff and no preparation, i will ask; why you didnt prepare for this presentation but still tin kosong at there? (stuff like that)

Last time i told one of the exco in my big project not to blame other people for not joining them to do work. Because, she never invite in a proper way (as team) to do work together. Do things alone and blame others. Not professional at all.
After the incident, i finally realized that this type of person has a small-minded. I didnt mean to hurt, it was my job as vice president to suggest what they should do and to maintain a good relations among all members. But still racist and no unity.
At last, a group of people start hating me but still groups of people thanking me.


But no harm, i've seen hundred of people like that before.
Just sun understand, WHY CAN'T UNITE in TEAM?????
Bawa kepala sendiri, mau ingat kepala orang lain juga ba.

So, its like that.

strait forward is a good thing to help the others to understand you
while in communication, but somehow to expose people's weakness to
their face, i think you are looking for trouble.

i know you are strait forward, but with that attitude of putting the sh*t on their face, is not strait forward at all.

there is something you seems to cant tolerate with others, thats when you saw people's truth.
truth is not the truth unless you understand it. so do you understand the truth here?
dont mind me saying this, people always have two sided, one is knowing them the other is not knowing them. there is no bad and good and right and wrong unless you created it and categories it your self.

what you have to do and what i think is the best for you is, leave their problem to them selves cause our lecturer is not stupid. we may know what are they trying to cover, but we can use a better way, academic way to shoot them, not judging statement. you are a religious people like anyone here, you should know we shouldn't judge, even if we do, find peaceful way to solve it, not looking for problem for your self. if you realize, every problem we are solving in university is not world problem, but research problem. we do not solve world problem cause thats nto our problem, even if you think so, then can you solve them or just delay them adn some times you are pushing the limits.

in short, there are ways to deal with people, strait forward way may be you can implemented on your dearing person cause they understand, but still dont be too hard on others cause that will do you no good or the others cause the only feeling they felt is threat, not cure.

LOL...Back to dunce board again

i tot you retired??

nobody wants to be my fren

why no body want to be your fren?