Keep on loving someone who already not love you anymore?

If she is that worth it, go fight for her.
If she dumps you for another guy, probably she's not the right one for you. Why should you tolerate someone who don't appreciate what you give

sometimes the prob not on the gals... is the guys...
y he doesnt appreciate it when i still loving him...
when i ady giv up, he juz realize and wan to come back to me...
the feeling is ady gone, but he still asking to come back to me...
wat shud i do???

no! girls who start it first! i was kena oredi.

erika_lovct848 wrote:sometimes the prob not on the gals... is the guys...
y he doesnt appreciate it when i still loving him...
when i ady giv up, he juz realize and wan to come back to me...
the feeling is ady gone, but he still asking to come back to me...
wat shud i do???

Why you give up on him? Why he 'realize' his feeling after break up, and what he will do if come back again? Unless he upgrade himself already, he will remain the same. Human is very hard to change..

harun wrote:no! girls who start it first! i was kena oredi.

Are you sure?

erika, he do day 1, you do 15 lor. sometimes to know if the thing is yours you gotta let it go, if it comes back to you its yours. As in, if he really do want back into the relationship, make him wait. If he really does sacrifice his time waiting for you, i'd say give him a second chance. Otherwise, move along :)

psylancer wrote:erika, he do day 1, you do 15 lor. sometimes to know if the thing is yours you gotta let it go, if it comes back to you its yours. As in, if he really do want back into the relationship, make him wait. If he really does sacrifice his time waiting for you, i'd say give him a second chance. Otherwise, move along :)

i totally agree with you in this....!!!!

psylancer wrote:erika, he do day 1, you do 15 lor. sometimes to know if the thing is yours you gotta let it go, if it comes back to you its yours. As in, if he really do want back into the relationship, make him wait. If he really does sacrifice his time waiting for you, i'd say give him a second chance. Otherwise, move along :)

How long you would suggest her to wait? What if her feeling has changed after all these years of letting her wait and does not want him anymore? It will turn out that she will be hated in the end..

If the relationship couldn't last the test of time, it shouldn't happen at all. That's all I'm saying.

i would say...never give the second chance to the man who hurt u...cz it's jz give them second chance too to hurt u..

for guys oso, never give the second chance to the woman who hurt u...cz it's oso give them second chance to hurt u bac...

x noe why....why those ppl liking so much to play around in relationship and other ppl's feeling? may be they x noe they want wat...so keep on trying...but never think of others feeling...they turn bac to u again may be is they feel lonely again...ppl who can't stand wif loneliness will oways doing the wrong things and affect other ppl too..

psylancer wrote:If the relationship couldn't last the test of time, it shouldn't happen at all. That's all I'm saying.

I used to believe this few years back. Now no. psylancer's statement is actually quite influenced by drama/cartoon/movie, i highly doubt waiting for something that might or might not happen will ever bear success.. It actually represents the lack of confidence, refuse to accept changes and is desperate.

Will girls like it if their ex-bf still wait for them for lets say, 5, 10 or 20 years? The more the guy 'wait', it will be more scary than touching..

young wrote:love is some miracle and can not be understand...but if keep on loving someone who are already not love you again...are this a good thing??? need to forget that person???give opinion hw to solve this problem...

okay, this is my personal opinion....as for me, if that person did not love you anymore, and yet you still "love" that person, take some time and think about your feeling, is it actually love, or is it just attachment that you felt, that you think you can't live w/o that person....or is it just your ego, unwilling to give up, eventho the relationship is over and done....

this kind of embarrassing, my first serious relationship, i'm the one who break it off...about 4 years already since i last saw him, i already moved on, got new relationship, but the heartache still live on.....sometime i feel guilty for doing it...i wish we can break off w/o hurting his feeling, mine also....

From my experience, everything that relate me to my ex already gone, give the watch to my sister, give the cute cup to my mum, give the teddy bear to another sister, give the festive card to a friend, the scarf for a friend who need blue one for christmas, throw away the picture....but i can't never forget him, he used to be a very important person to me, so i time do the magic.....

time have the power to heal many thing....so just be patient, don't rush in any relationship, there's no way you can forget about someone completely....so, move on....you still have god, family and friends to love you...never forget that...


p/s: could someone please 'ketok' my head for being to personal! heheh

BabyTsukasa wrote:

young wrote:love is some miracle and can not be understand...but if keep on loving someone who are already not love you again...are this a good thing??? need to forget that person???give opinion hw to solve this problem...

okay, this is my personal opinion....as for me, if that person did not love you anymore, and yet you still "love" that person, take some time and think about your feeling, is it actually love, or is it just attachment that you felt, that you think you can't live w/o that person....or is it just your ego, unwilling to give up, eventho the relationship is over and done....

this kind of embarrassing, my first serious relationship, i'm the one who break it off...about 4 years already since i last saw him, i already moved on, got new relationship, but the heartache still live on.....sometime i feel guilty for doing it...i wish we can break off w/o hurting his feeling, mine also....

From my experience, everything that relate me to my ex already gone, give the watch to my sister, give the cute cup to my mum, give the teddy bear to another sister, give the festive card to a friend, the scarf for a friend who need blue one for christmas, throw away the picture....but i can't never forget him, he used to be a very important person to me, so i time do the magic.....

time have the power to heal many thing....so just be patient, don't rush in any relationship, there's no way you can forget about someone completely....so, move on....you still have god, family and friends to love you...never forget that...


p/s: could someone please 'ketok' my head for being to personal! heheh

thats nice sharing baby...hehe...give me some idea on what to do...really wish u can post this earlier...hahahaha

JanBB wrote:i would say...never give the second chance to the man who hurt u...cz it's jz give them second chance too to hurt u..

for guys oso, never give the second chance to the woman who hurt u...cz it's oso give them second chance to hurt u bac...

x noe why....why those ppl liking so much to play around in relationship and other ppl's feeling? may be they x noe they want wat...so keep on trying...but never think of others feeling...they turn bac to u again may be is they feel lonely again...ppl who can't stand wif loneliness will oways doing the wrong things and affect other ppl too..

cox they dunno wat they wan...too chong dong....feel lonely...so wan someone to b beside them!!haiz...playing ppl like toys...

tutuman wrote:

BabyTsukasa wrote:

young wrote:love is some miracle and can not be understand...but if keep on loving someone who are already not love you again...are this a good thing??? need to forget that person???give opinion hw to solve this problem...

okay, this is my personal opinion....as for me, if that person did not love you anymore, and yet you still "love" that person, take some time and think about your feeling, is it actually love, or is it just attachment that you felt, that you think you can't live w/o that person....or is it just your ego, unwilling to give up, eventho the relationship is over and done....

this kind of embarrassing, my first serious relationship, i'm the one who break it off...about 4 years already since i last saw him, i already moved on, got new relationship, but the heartache still live on.....sometime i feel guilty for doing it...i wish we can break off w/o hurting his feeling, mine also....

From my experience, everything that relate me to my ex already gone, give the watch to my sister, give the cute cup to my mum, give the teddy bear to another sister, give the festive card to a friend, the scarf for a friend who need blue one for christmas, throw away the picture....but i can't never forget him, he used to be a very important person to me, so i time do the magic.....

time have the power to heal many thing....so just be patient, don't rush in any relationship, there's no way you can forget about someone completely....so, move on....you still have god, family and friends to love you...never forget that...


p/s: could someone please 'ketok' my head for being to personal! heheh

thats nice sharing baby...hehe...give me some idea on what to do...really wish u can post this earlier...hahahaha

Haha...i know i rarely post ...my bad...keep on loving...coz you need that to survive...you got me to love! hehehe...kidding only

siput : I should be a director then

baby : dame desu ne -_-