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Post by BabyTsukasa on Wed Oct 29, 2008 7:47 pm

what you think about it???
i know that some students get married while still pursuing degree...got baby some more....
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Post by Heby_KakiOfUKF on Wed Oct 29, 2008 10:10 pm

i dun think there is anything wrong regarding on it lo...they still can survive in uni tho they oredi become mom of somebody lo....

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Post by BabyTsukasa on Wed Oct 29, 2008 10:27 pm

what about you? personally...did you mind?
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Post by piggy on Wed Oct 29, 2008 10:37 pm

its okie if they found the right husband for them.. but for me marry early is definitely no.. coz still got plenty of time to do survey.. haha.. but wat is the age tat is consider young?
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Post by BabyTsukasa on Wed Oct 29, 2008 10:44 pm

well...according to the indonesian i know during my LI, by 20 you should already get married...according to me...30 is just nice
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Post by Heby_KakiOfUKF on Wed Oct 29, 2008 11:30 pm

lol...for me 26 is the best lo....but if they can find the right one early thn good oso la...

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Post by halo on Thu Oct 30, 2008 12:42 am

it all depend on individual whether to engaged with marriage in the early ages onot....if me, same with annoymous ......marriage too ealier will make ourself suffermore ealier....
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Post by tutuman on Thu Oct 30, 2008 12:59 am

i agree...no point to tied ourselves up so early...
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Post by PerfectStrike on Thu Oct 30, 2008 6:59 pm

As a guy, i dont mind being too old to marry.

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Post by candyclk on Thu Oct 30, 2008 7:06 pm

i think above 30 is good

hope halo can marry early
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Post by aotearoa on Thu Oct 30, 2008 9:50 pm

age is not a problem....what important in marriage is responsibility
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Post by halo on Fri Oct 31, 2008 12:03 am

candyclk wrote:i think above 30 is good

hope halo can marry early
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hihi......it is impossible for me to marry early since i not engaged with anybody else,...
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Post by Heby_KakiOfUKF on Fri Oct 31, 2008 12:43 am

who knows.....

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Post by lightning_siput on Fri Oct 31, 2008 1:12 am

Personally, i do not see any problem with marriage early. However, society today tends to be materialistic. After marriage, it is "compulsory" for the new couple to commit to unnecessary things like buy house, buy car, get children etc etc. Thats why youngsters nowadays delay their weddings. why not let them go at their own pace?

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Post by c_O on Fri Oct 31, 2008 2:27 pm

too early to get married .. will lead to a lots of problems..
n no freedom anymore ...
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Post by BabyTsukasa on Fri Oct 31, 2008 2:32 pm

lightning_siput wrote:Personally, i do not see any problem with marriage early. However, society today tends to be materialistic. After marriage, it is "compulsory" for the new couple to commit to unnecessary things like buy house, buy car, get children etc etc. Thats why youngsters nowadays delay their weddings. why not let them go at their own pace?

what you think unnecessary i think is actually necessary. buy house and car as early as you can helps a lot...after it relates highly towards financial stability...a lot of marriage ends due to financial instability...money is almost everything nowadays...marriage is a serious business. it's not only about living together and share all the lovings!

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Post by lightning_siput on Fri Oct 31, 2008 10:27 pm

BabyTsukasa wrote:
lightning_siput wrote:Personally, i do not see any problem with marriage early. However, society today tends to be materialistic. After marriage, it is "compulsory" for the new couple to commit to unnecessary things like buy house, buy car, get children etc etc. Thats why youngsters nowadays delay their weddings. why not let them go at their own pace?

what you think unnecessary i think is actually necessary. buy house and car as early as you can helps a lot...after it relates highly towards financial stability...a lot of marriage ends due to financial instability...money is almost everything nowadays...marriage is a serious business. it's not only about living together and share all the lovings!

Some parents have big houses, why not live there first if still financialy unstable. Or rent somewhere first. If buy house, need to settle the house loan, furniture (new furniture!), and cars. I think it is more to impress other people rather than really useful. People will ask you about all these things once you are married, be prepared for eyes that 'perli' (forgot english word) you if you say you don't have, or you are inferior to any other person.

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Post by BabyTsukasa on Sat Nov 01, 2008 6:54 am

Hahaha..if that's is what you meant about siput, then i agree with you... society is can be very judgmental, just bear with it
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Post by halo on Sat Nov 01, 2008 4:40 pm

Heby_KakiOfUKF wrote:who knows.....

yes...i know for sure...
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Post by halo on Sat Nov 01, 2008 4:46 pm

lightning_siput wrote:
BabyTsukasa wrote:
lightning_siput wrote:Personally, i do not see any problem with marriage early. However, society today tends to be materialistic. After marriage, it is "compulsory" for the new couple to commit to unnecessary things like buy house, buy car, get children etc etc. Thats why youngsters nowadays delay their weddings. why not let them go at their own pace?

what you think unnecessary i think is actually necessary. buy house and car as early as you can helps a lot...after it relates highly towards financial stability...a lot of marriage ends due to financial instability...money is almost everything nowadays...marriage is a serious business. it's not only about living together and share all the lovings!

Some parents have big houses, why not live there first if still financialy unstable. Or rent somewhere first. If buy house, need to settle the house loan, furniture (new furniture!), and cars. I think it is more to impress other people rather than really useful. People will ask you about all these things once you are married, be prepared for eyes that 'perli' (forgot english word) you if you say you don't have, or you are inferior to any other person.

seriuosly...lightning seeput ady reach mature age to engaged in marriage .....ummm...not bad.....
hihi............
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Post by lightning_siput on Sat Nov 01, 2008 6:01 pm

Cannot marry yet.. Business very good till no time to get married..

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Post by halo on Sat Nov 01, 2008 6:07 pm

haha....who knows...
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Post by intruxion on Sun Nov 02, 2008 8:16 pm

My 2 cents... Early marriage is not really a prob.. It really depends on the couple themselves... if they are ready for the tanggungjawab and the comitment, then why not.. if we think about it, rather get married and have a proper couple life with a proper knot rather then berkepit sini sana buat maksiat rite? But ofcoz la, the couple must be ready. Like what u all said... marry is not something small and something u can experiement with.. hehe.. peace.. :)
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Post by bumi dragon lord on Sun Nov 02, 2008 8:17 pm

i think, married comes with plannig or else every wishes and ips will not work for the latter remedy.

just my two cents.
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Post by intruxion on Mon Nov 03, 2008 12:23 am

bumi dragon lord wrote:i think, married comes with plannig or else every wishes and ips will not work for the latter remedy.

just my two cents.

totally agree... Must have planning.. how far the plan is... it depends.. but if still studying.. must roughly already plan how to go through life as student and as married couple..
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