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Does races influence the criteria in choosing your partner?
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Does races influence the criteria in choosing your partner?
I just want to know your opinion. Recently, I saw the Dayaks, Malay, Chinese and other races tend to couple with their own races, Why? Does it because naturaly they tend to interest to their own races ( which have almost have same attitude, or maybe some similarities in their genes). Some people says, if someone marry with other races or from people in other countires, they will have brilliant children ( because of genetic drift?). Really? We are Malaysia, MAH! Different races and different tradition.
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Re: Does races influence the criteria in choosing your partner?
most ppl will look in own races...pay attention on own races first...and most ppl will pay attention too on orang putih...haha..so far i noticed is like dis...
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Re: Does races influence the criteria in choosing your partner?
There is no significant statistical proves about this. Anyways, I'm having a mixed ethnicity partner. NOTE THAT, there is NO RACE among human.Iria Claire wrote:Some people says, if someone marry with other races or from people in
other countries, they will have brilliant children ( because of genetic
drift?)
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Iria Claire wrote:Some people says, if someone marry with other races or from people in other countires, they will have brilliant children ( because of genetic drift?).
I don't think that affects the intelligence of the children :D
Rather their upbringing? Maybe what you suggested was based on different ways of raising children, based on race? I have no idea, feedback on this one please?
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Re: Does races influence the criteria in choosing your partner?
Yes, it does. In fact there is a research about this? Perhaps you guys can Google it.
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Acme wrote:there is NO RACE among human.
another one of the good acme quotes. :D
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Race is coined for the sole purpose of discrimination..
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Lolx. Make sure you know what is race and ethnicity. Malaysia and US is the only country in this whole freaking world using the word "race" to differentiate peoples, which is very offending. Take anthropology and you'll know why.
Forbes and Mead (in Noon & Blyton, 1997:169) said "the current situation is that the law recognizes an ethnic group as one which
has a long shared history and a cultural tradition of its own, and that this might be identified through characteristics such as: a common geographical origin, a common language, a common literature, a common religion and the characteristics of being a minority in a larger community”.
A certain group of people will come to an understanding as to what racial/ethnic differences are of relevance when it comes to distinguishing themselves from others. The concept of race has been discredited by sciences although it is still used today in a political sense.
Some people behave as though clearly identifiable groups do exist (e.g. leads to racism). Because of this problem, the concept of ‘race’ has been debunked and to a certain extent, it has been replaced by ‘ethnicity’.
Its ethnicity which we're saying here, not race. Using the word race is incorrect.
Forbes and Mead (in Noon & Blyton, 1997:169) said "the current situation is that the law recognizes an ethnic group as one which
has a long shared history and a cultural tradition of its own, and that this might be identified through characteristics such as: a common geographical origin, a common language, a common literature, a common religion and the characteristics of being a minority in a larger community”.
A certain group of people will come to an understanding as to what racial/ethnic differences are of relevance when it comes to distinguishing themselves from others. The concept of race has been discredited by sciences although it is still used today in a political sense.
Some people behave as though clearly identifiable groups do exist (e.g. leads to racism). Because of this problem, the concept of ‘race’ has been debunked and to a certain extent, it has been replaced by ‘ethnicity’.
Its ethnicity which we're saying here, not race. Using the word race is incorrect.
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Re: Does races influence the criteria in choosing your partner?
True enough, which one do you think has more racism issue though? Malaysia or US?
Back to topic, I'll date anyone regardless of the ethnicity, but if we were to get serious, and religion comes into question, then we'll think about it then. Maybe that's how I was brought up. Now I'm not saying that I'm the most religious person alive, I'm just not ready yet to switch my religion if things do come along our way. Dilemma.
Back to topic, I'll date anyone regardless of the ethnicity, but if we were to get serious, and religion comes into question, then we'll think about it then. Maybe that's how I was brought up. Now I'm not saying that I'm the most religious person alive, I'm just not ready yet to switch my religion if things do come along our way. Dilemma.
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Human did not got isolated from each another groups long enough to "evolve" into some other types of form, then if having doing so you'll only get a new "race". Sides, human is under the species of Homo Sapiens, how could you have a difference race of human, where race is in a bigger scope of category than species?
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if me, this will infuence me my criteria lo.....but that dun means that i am a racist....i am friendly...hahaha
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tutuman wrote:if me, this will infuence me my criteria lo.....but that dun means that i am a racist....i am friendly...hahaha
haha, no one calls you racist la... but influence your criteria like how leh?
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hahaha...i think will choose same race gal as my partner lo....
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For me, the ethnic doesn't matter but the more concern is in differences in religion and law in Malaysia. that's a very big thing to tackle. Conclusion: ethnic don't matter.
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siput..dun try to out of topic agn...hahaha...later all ppl post things not related to topic agn..
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sorry tutuman...may i out of topic for a while?? actually is wanna ask u ppl opinion...
wen i work in lawyer firm b4, i had a case:
chinese couple, got 2 children, 1 boy and 1 girl...den one day husband wanna divorce wif his wife, cz he married a muslim girl in indonesia...den fine, my client (the wife) wanna her children follow her, but her husband's mom, x let the daughter follow my client, she x giv her grandchild eat and kurung her grandchild inside the room...she very support her son to married a Muslim girls...
wen i work in lawyer firm b4, i had a case:
chinese couple, got 2 children, 1 boy and 1 girl...den one day husband wanna divorce wif his wife, cz he married a muslim girl in indonesia...den fine, my client (the wife) wanna her children follow her, but her husband's mom, x let the daughter follow my client, she x giv her grandchild eat and kurung her grandchild inside the room...she very support her son to married a Muslim girls...
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Re: Does races influence the criteria in choosing your partner?
well, i believe that wen true love come, doesn't matter the colour of skins, distance of age, height, religion and etc....and true love will overcome all those problems...so far i think like tat lah...is it too optimist?? hehe...my fren asked me b4: is to find a rite person to love , or is to love a rite person??
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JanBB wrote:well, i believe that wen true love come, doesn't matter the colour of skins, distance of age, height, religion and etc....and true love will overcome all those problems...so far i think like tat lah...is it too optimist?? hehe...my fren asked me b4: is to find a rite person to love , or is to love a rite person??
more accurately i think be other ppl's rite person!! haha..wat do u think? u gone through any relationship b4??haha
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tutuman wrote:JanBB wrote:well, i believe that wen true love come, doesn't matter the colour of skins, distance of age, height, religion and etc....and true love will overcome all those problems...so far i think like tat lah...is it too optimist?? hehe...my fren asked me b4: is to find a rite person to love , or is to love a rite person??
more accurately i think be other ppl's rite person!! haha..wat do u think? u gone through any relationship b4??haha
we be other's rite ppl, but if he/she not our rite ppl leh??for the laz question:hehe hehe....
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to reply this topic; im dun think tat races will be influencing me in choosing my partner... as long as he love me, then i oso love him, tat 's not a problem for me... i dun care wat 's his race... the important is i gt feeling on him... i care abt him... tat's all...
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generally, i am not influence by the races of my partner. i can accept anyone who is eligible and able to communicate.
some how appearance and status is not important rather than a character is the main concern.
some how appearance and status is not important rather than a character is the main concern.
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JanBB wrote:tutuman wrote:JanBB wrote:well, i believe that wen true love come, doesn't matter the colour of skins, distance of age, height, religion and etc....and true love will overcome all those problems...so far i think like tat lah...is it too optimist?? hehe...my fren asked me b4: is to find a rite person to love , or is to love a rite person??
more accurately i think be other ppl's rite person!! haha..wat do u think? u gone through any relationship b4??haha
we be other's rite ppl, but if he/she not our rite ppl leh??for the laz question:hehe hehe....
erm...sometime..tohave someone that love you is better than love other ppl...if that person love you then he or she will care bout you...as time past u will have good feeling towards him or her too..do u agree?? i dun understand wats mean by hehe hehe.... bo...hahaha...
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race influence the realationship is infact that has to do with personal preference rather than general assumption.
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sometimes lu, but when u de luv him, u will not care too much de lu..
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hai...i think race is not the problem...don't worry...the most important is your own feel... good luck..
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