Efficient Break Up Techniques

anyone care to share?

im not greater in this... tat's y my two ex-bf still disturb me nw... i hope somebody can share wif me abt tis as well...

Efficient? i'd tried it before, say point blank....straight to the point, a pail of tears and few talk later everything settled...

there are no easy way when it actually honestly involves emotion, it is easier if you have no other feelings but hatred!

tell her or him i dont feel anymore (typical)
i have a new boy friend/girl friend (typical)
i fall in love, but not with you this time (typical)

you are just my slave for s*x (aggresive)
she is better than you (aggresive)
you cant do it better, can you? (aggresive)

this is my last call (cruel)
dont make me hate you (cruel)
best friend are better for us (less cruel)

honestly, i feel like we are done (liar)
to be truthful, i am gay/lesbian (liar)
i dont lie to you, it just happen...(liar)

BabyTsukasa wrote:Efficient? i'd tried it before, say point blank....straight to the point, a pail of tears and few talk later everything settled...

there are no easy way when it actually honestly involves emotion, it is easier if you have no other feelings but hatred!

ya....i agree....dun waste anytime...those who avoid to meet n explain are the most stupid..why not juz straight to the point n everything settled...no wasting of time energy n emotion...

but sometimes is hard to b straight forward...

its not hard....juz b cruel...for once...its much more better than juz taking a whole yr time to settled the things...both will be tired

to be cruel... not all the ppl able to do so, such like me...

hahahaha....u will nid to do so someday...

Ya... I agree. You have to be cruel...there's no point being nice people if in the end you gonna suffer, and that person gonna suffer worse since they don't really understand what you are thinking....Just be "cruel" for a while. Be strong in other word.

i dont think that cruel is the only thing we can do here to breakup the relationship...

i thinking strait forward is the answer, just tell her your reason and she/he like it or not
he/she will accept the fact as a whole one day, cruel doesn't make good for both as it gives false impression and false message.

the world is small, someday somehow both of you will still meet each other either by accident or intention. dont ever create something that you dont know what will be made in the future.

I do agree with you bumi dragon lord...feelings is such a complicated matter especially when it involves another person...

some said sword can protect and harm lifes...
but
i said words can cure and kill ones life...

sword and words are not much different
by one S is infront the word
and
the other is behind the word.

it depends on how the person who use it and intepret it.

the power of survival is depends on acknowledgement, so dont kill yourself and the history of yours cause one day you dont know if you might need it for something.