How's ur relationship wif people in UNIMAS???

Ms Kye wrote:i am a straight forward person,serious in doing project or assignment, also justice matter the most. But now try not too straight forward (which sound a bit fake lu), just to adjust the things.

Straight forward not in bitchy way la, for example in asking question while presentation; if i see the person presenting seriously bluff and no preparation, i will ask; why you didnt prepare for this presentation but still tin kosong at there? (stuff like that)

Last time i told one of the exco in my big project not to blame other people for not joining them to do work. Because, she never invite in a proper way (as team) to do work together. Do things alone and blame others. Not professional at all.
After the incident, i finally realized that this type of person has a small-minded. I didnt mean to hurt, it was my job as vice president to suggest what they should do and to maintain a good relations among all members. But still racist and no unity.
At last, a group of people start hating me but still groups of people thanking me.


But no harm, i've seen hundred of people like that before.
Just sun understand, WHY CAN'T UNITE in TEAM?????
Bawa kepala sendiri, mau ingat kepala orang lain juga ba.

So, its like that.

strait forward is a good thing to help the others to understand you
while in communication, but somehow to expose people's weakness to
their face, i think you are looking for trouble.

i know you are strait forward, but with that attitude of putting the sh*t on their face, is not strait forward at all.

there is something you seems to cant tolerate with others, thats when you saw people's truth.
truth is not the truth unless you understand it. so do you understand the truth here?
dont mind me saying this, people always have two sided, one is knowing them the other is not knowing them. there is no bad and good and right and wrong unless you created it and categories it your self.

what you have to do and what i think is the best for you is, leave their problem to them selves cause our lecturer is not stupid. we may know what are they trying to cover, but we can use a better way, academic way to shoot them, not judging statement. you are a religious people like anyone here, you should know we shouldn't judge, even if we do, find peaceful way to solve it, not looking for problem for your self. if you realize, every problem we are solving in university is not world problem, but research problem. we do not solve world problem cause thats nto our problem, even if you think so, then can you solve them or just delay them adn some times you are pushing the limits.

in short, there are ways to deal with people, strait forward way may be you can implemented on your dearing person cause they understand, but still dont be too hard on others cause that will do you no good or the others cause the only feeling they felt is threat, not cure.

LOL...Back to dunce board again

i tot you retired??

nobody wants to be my fren

why no body want to be your fren?

harun, u shud figure out tat y nobody wana b ur fren...

ok-ok laa.......if u find sum1 good,they will be very good....if bad....really bad....

but sometimes oso depend on ur own personality... hav to owez look thru ur own weakness n make improvement.. ppl ll b prefer to hav tat kind of frens who hav self-improvement...