Keep on loving someone who already not love you anymore?

love is some miracle and can not be understand...but if keep on loving someone who are already not love you again...are this a good thing??? need to forget that person???give opinion hw to solve this problem...

1st, are that person knows that you fall in love with him/her? Well, just forget it if that person reject you. Just be a normal friend will do. GL :)

PerfectStrike wrote:1st, are that person knows that you fall in love with him/her? Well, just forget it if that person reject you. Just be a normal friend will do. GL :)

she know and she got accept my love.at the end break with unacceptable reason..how??

Dont simply give up! Try to approach her lor...with sms or call, talk nicely, concern her. If there is still a feeling exists inside both of you, there is still a chance.

idonoaboutxp wrote:Dont simply give up! Try to approach her lor...with sms or call, talk nicely, concern her. If there is still a feeling exists inside both of you, there is still a chance.

but i think she don't had ...she got new boy friend...how sad i am....

den x be reluctant to leave her...sorry i hav to say tat...i noe u love her so much, but she ardy doing sth dat x worthy u pour ur love to her again...well, if can be fren again better...

jz the time problem, u need time to cure from it..let it be, ok? may be she's not ur rite person? no matter how, muz love urself, mz be tough ya.

young..r u a gurl or guy? confius here

hoi...stupid...this dun seems like ur problem!!! more to someone's problem a...i am ok d...noob!!!!anyway...more suggestion or opinion the better...

i think a....juz scold that gal..but i wont do that....

who stupid?

young...haha...

wah u so mean

tutuman wrote:hoi...stupid...this dun seems like ur problem!!! more to someone's problem a...i am ok d...noob!!!!anyway...more suggestion or opinion the better...

i think a....juz scold that gal..but i wont do that....

waou...so clever u..just i don't know how to solve my friend problem...so i minta opinion...haha...i hope my friend will understand...hope that not any complain from the ex-gal friend about my friend keep on asking why break with his...hai...open mind a little big.i will do the best i think my "friend" which i concern also can do the best...


for tutuman....

Espada wrote:who stupid?

who is stupid .???i think u ask tutuman better o...he will answer ur question better...

avoid rude words or simply insult ppl in UKF.

btw, if the gal really have a new bf, just let go ba, time will cure your fren. Besides, try to expend your network, you might find someone else : )
just an opinion

yea let her go is the bez way.. having fun with fren so u can 4get bout her..

If she is that worth it, go fight for her.
If she dumps you for another guy, probably she's not the right one for you. Why should you tolerate someone who don't appreciate what you give

sometimes the prob not on the gals... is the guys...
y he doesnt appreciate it when i still loving him...
when i ady giv up, he juz realize and wan to come back to me...
the feeling is ady gone, but he still asking to come back to me...
wat shud i do???

no! girls who start it first! i was kena oredi.

erika_lovct848 wrote:sometimes the prob not on the gals... is the guys...
y he doesnt appreciate it when i still loving him...
when i ady giv up, he juz realize and wan to come back to me...
the feeling is ady gone, but he still asking to come back to me...
wat shud i do???

Why you give up on him? Why he 'realize' his feeling after break up, and what he will do if come back again? Unless he upgrade himself already, he will remain the same. Human is very hard to change..

harun wrote:no! girls who start it first! i was kena oredi.

Are you sure?

erika, he do day 1, you do 15 lor. sometimes to know if the thing is yours you gotta let it go, if it comes back to you its yours. As in, if he really do want back into the relationship, make him wait. If he really does sacrifice his time waiting for you, i'd say give him a second chance. Otherwise, move along :)

psylancer wrote:erika, he do day 1, you do 15 lor. sometimes to know if the thing is yours you gotta let it go, if it comes back to you its yours. As in, if he really do want back into the relationship, make him wait. If he really does sacrifice his time waiting for you, i'd say give him a second chance. Otherwise, move along :)

i totally agree with you in this....!!!!

psylancer wrote:erika, he do day 1, you do 15 lor. sometimes to know if the thing is yours you gotta let it go, if it comes back to you its yours. As in, if he really do want back into the relationship, make him wait. If he really does sacrifice his time waiting for you, i'd say give him a second chance. Otherwise, move along :)

How long you would suggest her to wait? What if her feeling has changed after all these years of letting her wait and does not want him anymore? It will turn out that she will be hated in the end..

If the relationship couldn't last the test of time, it shouldn't happen at all. That's all I'm saying.

i would say...never give the second chance to the man who hurt u...cz it's jz give them second chance too to hurt u..

for guys oso, never give the second chance to the woman who hurt u...cz it's oso give them second chance to hurt u bac...

x noe why....why those ppl liking so much to play around in relationship and other ppl's feeling? may be they x noe they want wat...so keep on trying...but never think of others feeling...they turn bac to u again may be is they feel lonely again...ppl who can't stand wif loneliness will oways doing the wrong things and affect other ppl too..

psylancer wrote:If the relationship couldn't last the test of time, it shouldn't happen at all. That's all I'm saying.

I used to believe this few years back. Now no. psylancer's statement is actually quite influenced by drama/cartoon/movie, i highly doubt waiting for something that might or might not happen will ever bear success.. It actually represents the lack of confidence, refuse to accept changes and is desperate.

Will girls like it if their ex-bf still wait for them for lets say, 5, 10 or 20 years? The more the guy 'wait', it will be more scary than touching..